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Topic Started: Apr 22 2007, 05:27 PM (1,991 Views)
Megan
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OMG, I can't believe this just happened! I'm still in shock :(

I can't believe my stepdad would even THINK of cheating on my mother. I thought he was different. I guess I thought wrong yet again. I've already gone through divorce once.. I don't know if I can do it again.. :'(

I so need a hug right now :(

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Megan
Dec 23 2007, 09:17 PM
OMG, I can't believe this just happened! I'm still in shock :(

I can't believe my stepdad would even THINK of cheating on my mother. I thought he was different. I guess I thought wrong yet again. I've already gone through divorce once.. I don't know if I can do it again.. :'(

I so need a hug right now :(

xxxxM

:o oh no. *hugs* hope everything is ok.


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Dec 23 2007, 03:23 PM
Megan
Dec 23 2007, 09:17 PM
OMG, I can't believe this just happened! I'm still in shock :(

I can't believe my stepdad would even THINK of cheating on my mother.  I thought he was different.  I guess I thought wrong yet again.  I've already gone through divorce once.. I don't know if I can do it again.. :'(

I so need a hug right now :(

xxxxM

:o oh no. *hugs* hope everything is ok.

Thanks Steph.. I hope everything turns out okay.. but it doesn't look like it will.. :(

xxM
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Well everything is pretty much back to normal.

The whole thing turned out to be nothing but a misunderstanding and both of them have worked it all out now.

:)

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^ i am so glad to hear it Megan... me parents are devoiced so i know its never pretty, and i'm so glad it was just a misunderstanding. :)

((((((((((hugs))))))))))
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Confession:

I love Christmas, but it makes me think, and that's never a good thing.

As much as I love my family, I do wonder. Had my birth mum wanted me, what would my life be now?

Every year I think this. And every year I'm no closer to finding an answer.

I still love Christmas though.
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Dec 24 2007, 10:51 PM
Confession:

I love Christmas, but it makes me think, and that's never a good thing.

As much as I love my family, I do wonder. Had my birth mum wanted me, what would my life be now?

Every year I think this. And every year I'm no closer to finding an answer.

I still love Christmas though.

I guess it's only natural to wonder about the 'what ifs'. Have you ever considered trying to trace your biological parents?


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Dec 27 2007, 05:31 PM
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Dec 24 2007, 10:51 PM
Confession:

I love Christmas, but it makes me think, and that's never a good thing.

As much as I love my family, I do wonder. Had my birth mum wanted me, what would my life be now?

Every year I think this. And every year I'm no closer to finding an answer.

I still love Christmas though.

I guess it's only natural to wonder about the 'what ifs'. Have you ever considered trying to trace your biological parents?

Yeah, I've considered it, I know my birth mum's name and date of birth, and I could find her easily enough, but I'm not ready to risk a second round of rejection.

Maybe one day.
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*hugs to ginger*


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I really don't even want to go to college, but nobody seems to notice that. And I can't say to anyone that I don't want to, because it's expected of me in a way I guess. But I just don't think I can do it. It's to much stress already, and I've only just started applying. I don't want to go, but I don't really have much choice. :(

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Dec 27 2007, 04:59 PM
*hugs to ginger*


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I really don't even want to go to college, but nobody seems to notice that. And I can't say to anyone that I don't want to, because it's expected of me in a way I guess. But I just don't think I can do it. It's to much stress already, and I've only just started applying. I don't want to go, but I don't really have much choice. :(

Awww... *hugs*.

In the end though hon, if you don't do what you feel is best for you, you're gonna be really unhappy. I know it sounds really cliche, but you've got to follow your heart.

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Dec 27 2007, 09:59 PM
*hugs to ginger*


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I really don't even want to go to college, but nobody seems to notice that. And I can't say to anyone that I don't want to, because it's expected of me in a way I guess. But I just don't think I can do it. It's to much stress already, and I've only just started applying. I don't want to go, but I don't really have much choice. :(

Eh take your time with the college thing.

It's only if your becoming a Doctor, Lawyer or something really big that you need a degree for.

It's mostly certifications and knowing how to turn on a computer.

Lots of people seriously don't know how to use a computer. SO if you can use MS Word and other office software..your almost in.

Though if you want to become good at something like Digital, then at least a Certificate will work.

Degrees are only for rich people and ambitious who plan to not fail a class.

There's no hurry. maybe someday feelings towards it will change.

Most of my friends who went to college right after high school, are now 20 thousand in debt because of the loan they had to get.

So yeah, no hurry hun B)
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(((hugs to Ginger and Nienna)))

Nienna, I know over in the US / Canada that its a blessing in a way to be able to go to college, cus i know its kinda expensive over there to do so and there isnt really anything that can help financially support you like we do in the UK.

Saying this though i really think that it should be up to you to decide whether or not you want to go to college at this time, as there is no point in going unless you are actually interested in going at the time. If that makes sence?

I've kinda had the same situation, cus i know my college lectures wanted me to go straight onto uni after i finished college, i didnt want to as i knew i needed a break. And as much as i had the feeling of what you feel like now i stuck to my guns and i'm on my break. (even though i think my lectures realise now i needed the break after i didnt go to graduation)

Just because u dont wanna go now, doesnt mean u can never go again? Just because i decided not to go onto uni doesnt mean i wont in the future. maybe not next yr (sept 08) but i will do, when i'm ready to contunie my education and when i know what excatly i want to do.

Don't be pushed... talk to them, let them know how you feel hun ;)
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Dec 27 2007, 07:01 PM
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Dec 27 2007, 05:31 PM
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Dec 24 2007, 10:51 PM
Confession:

I love Christmas, but it makes me think, and that's never a good thing.

As much as I love my family, I do wonder. Had my birth mum wanted me, what would my life be now?

Every year I think this. And every year I'm no closer to finding an answer.

I still love Christmas though.

I guess it's only natural to wonder about the 'what ifs'. Have you ever considered trying to trace your biological parents?

Yeah, I've considered it, I know my birth mum's name and date of birth, and I could find her easily enough, but I'm not ready to risk a second round of rejection.

Maybe one day.

Yeah I understand that. At least you know you have the option to find her though, if you ever decided you really want to do it.



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Hugs to nienna. I hope you are able to work it out. If you really can't get out of it, the only thing you can do is look on the bright side and think that it won't last forever, it's only a few years of your life and you might meet some great people and have some amazing experiences. Looking back now, I really wish I'd gone to uni for the experience if not the education.

That said though, I couldn't have faced going straight out of school and into further education. I was so sick of learning back then, I had to take some time away from it and that's why I didn't go to uni. Can't you try to reach a compromise whereby you'd take a year out, maybe get a job and then go to college next year?


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Dec 24 2007, 09:51 PM
Confession:

I love Christmas, but it makes me think, and that's never a good thing.

As much as I love my family, I do wonder. Had my birth mum wanted me, what would my life be now?

Every year I think this. And every year I'm no closer to finding an answer.

I still love Christmas though.

You were adopted to?


I was also. Apparently my REAL mother was not fit enough to take care of me. She was a little ehhh....lets just say i wasn't supposed to find out about her.

BUT she found me later cause my 'mom' or my Aunt told me about her.


Even then...I wonder the SAME thing. What if I was my real mothers daughter instead of my 'Aunt'?


Life would not be what it is now i guarantee. Though i do wonder what type of person i would have become. I know i would not be this type of person I am now.

I totally understand you here whether my comment helped or not.
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Dec 30 2007, 03:13 PM
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Dec 24 2007, 09:51 PM
Confession:

I love Christmas, but it makes me think, and that's never a good thing.

As much as I love my family, I do wonder. Had my birth mum wanted me, what would my life be now?

Every year I think this. And every year I'm no closer to finding an answer.

I still love Christmas though.

You were adopted to?


I was also. Apparently my REAL mother was not fit enough to take care of me. She was a little ehhh....lets just say i wasn't supposed to find out about her.

BUT she found me later cause my 'mom' or my Aunt told me about her.


Even then...I wonder the SAME thing. What if I was my real mothers daughter instead of my 'Aunt'?


Life would not be what it is now i guarantee. Though i do wonder what type of person i would have become. I know i would not be this type of person I am now.

I totally understand you here Whether my comment helped or not.

Definitely helped, thanks!

For her to find you must have been challenging for you: I think one of the things that I appreciate about my situation is that I have control over whether I want to search for her or not, I think i'd freak if that was taken away from me.

I know I'd be a different person. I know life would be very different. I guess a little part of me wonders if it would have been better (I wouldn't be as attachment disordered as I am now) but the practical part of me knows that most likely, life would have been a hell of a lot worse.
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