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| Tweet Topic Started: 10th March 2006 - 11:37 AM (884 Views) | |
| Demagorgon | 11th March 2006 - 08:23 PM Post #16 |
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Yeah, we don't have to know you in real life to care about you. I've met some arsey doctors who follow the 'you inflicted this on yourself, you deserve what you get,' philosophy, and have a huge scar because I wasn't allowed stitches. These people are not good doctors. But good doctors are out there, I swear on it, ones who don't preach or judge, and actually listen. I agree with everything Hakomike has said, especially about the meds. |
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| Garbag | 11th March 2006 - 09:10 PM Post #17 |
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See now you have the right idea! That's the Garbag way to life! "Who cares" That's the way to live and life is more fun that way!
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| Cluny | 11th March 2006 - 09:23 PM Post #18 |
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I have hit rock bottom before, and I AM GRATEFUL that I did. A person can't know what true extacy and fullfillment (High High's) without ever knowing where the supremely deep reference point is. I picked skaven because I believe I have alot in common with the vermin species. LOL You should become a writer dude, I see a MASSIVE tide of wisdom behind your words. It would be a challenging task to tame such a deamon; but I guarantee you you can't even imagine the power you could attain. Here is the first thing I would do: You sound like you have forgotten how to laugh, and you need to RELEARN it! Take one hour. Time it and stop precisely when it is up. Google some clean jokes. |
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| Skittin Warpchoker | 11th March 2006 - 09:30 PM Post #19 |
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Snaillyfish!!! w00t!!!!!
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i join cluny in his sentiments... you need to know the ravine before you can truly appreciate the top.... a very simple idea, but on that works.... i always do it, and it relieves me of a great deal of stress. write... anything and everything that comes to mind at the moment it comes to mind... today i wrote 4 pages during work just to keep my mind clear.... it consists of poems, thoughts, fears, random words, everything..... and reread everything you write.... the first few times will give you a heart attack, but eventually it will give you an objective perspective on your own mind n thoughts.... and breaking doors sometimes help
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| Bassik Dwarveripper | 11th March 2006 - 09:52 PM Post #20 |
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| Xh!n Tarat | 11th March 2006 - 10:23 PM Post #21 |
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(Mostly) Overatted.
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Good luck, mate. I've been fighting the black dog most of my life, but the only advice I can give you is to keep looking till you find a psychologist or psychiatrist (and pack of mates) that you can trust and with whom you connect. I think that enough have responded here to show you that you're not entirely alone, and my own experience is that its well worth moving on when your current environment is what you neither want nor need. And never - ever - ever - let the bastards grind you down! |
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| leperous festerheart | 11th March 2006 - 10:41 PM Post #22 |
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again...im shocked to see this amout of replies. i do write often , i try to write at least 1 side of A4 paper every day , just about my emotions , aspirations , thoughts ect. it sometimes helps , but sometimes you know...its not good enough...you need more. its like the free wine samples you sometimes get , you try the cup and end up wanting the bottle... ive tried never giving up , ive sat on the floor while bullies beat me until i bled , ive listened to doctors rant on , ive had my parents crying , friends leaving me , but yet i havnt given up. but you know...im getting tired of trying when eveytime someone just kicks me right back down again. i mean...my next door neighbor found me hanging of the ceiling rails from a rope , he saved me...i dont want to let him down but..im just so tired. if you live a double life like myself , you will understand this alot , its hard to act ''normal'' to people that dont know and to be your ''other'' self every other waking hour of the day. ive had meds , but after 6 months they just dont work , they are doing nothing to help me , guess what , same doc perscribed them to me as i mentioned before... as always , leperous , a.k.a callum |
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| Bassik Dwarveripper | 11th March 2006 - 11:14 PM Post #23 |
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*hugs* It may seem like your life is s**t and at rockbottom. And it probably is. But I know from experience it won't stay that way. The teenage years are allways the hardest, and for some they're even worse, but it will pass. Bullies will stop bothering you, as they're either become wiser, went to jail or are dead. Your doctor sounds like a real ass who doesn't deserve his diploma's and should be bitten by a rabid squirrel. Instead of focusing on the bad things in your life, focus on the good things, as minute as they are. Trust me, it helps. And so does Garfield! [size0]~swearing edited~ |
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| squiggles | 11th March 2006 - 11:29 PM Post #24 |
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dude, i'm not depressed or anything. but i've had my friends leave me. i know how hard it is,you just gotta keep telling yourself you can get new friend (if they left you in a time of need they weren't good friends anyway) your therpistis a jackass, and the doctor isn't good. they're people you should count on to help. No put you back down when you've had s**t thrown at you. my advice is to get a new doctor and start afresh, you'll be suprised. i know its easy for me to say this but hang in there and don't let go! if you remember that people here care then you're not alone, never feel that way. If you feel alone you can think there is nowhere to turn, there is a place to turn. like Bassik said focus on the good things watch a funny movie or short cartoon if people put up links of funny things up it might helplike here [size0]~swearing edited~ |
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| Underlord Burrows | 12th March 2006 - 12:49 AM Post #25 |
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The Ever Shiny, Muse and Co Cookie Cutter
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i suggest comedy. just any series, any programe, any film just anything. find something that makes you laugh and then watch it. then find anything else in the series and watch that. then find others things like it or by the same makers and watch that. have a laugh. if you want any ideas just ask anybody or me. i could list a huge amount im sure. stuff on the interenet i find stuff all the time. tell you what DanEBarnz [AT] hotmail.com add me and we can talk and i can give you links and stuff. i am there if you need. i know you can enjoy life and if you are not at the moment nothing lasts forever. it will pass. oh and i admire your ability to write and do the stream of consciousness technique. i doubt i could ever do that. i just do not seem to work like that. Underlord Burrows |
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| hakoMike | 12th March 2006 - 02:13 AM Post #26 |
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A lot of people need to switch meds until they find one that works for them. Six months should be long enough to tell, but it can take 1-3 months before they really do anything. My wife switched from Zoloft to Lexapro and has noticed a notable difference. And remember that you have a lot of people here pulling for you, despite the fact that none of us could pick you out of a crowd of two people. You're both anonymous and supported here. |
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| Skittin Warpchoker | 12th March 2006 - 04:46 PM Post #27 |
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Snaillyfish!!! w00t!!!!!
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good, i know what you mean.... but write when you want to.... do what you want when you want.... if you want to bruise your knuckles on a wall, do it, immediately... wanna write, write.... wanna cry, cry.... and do not, i repeat, do not lock yourself in.... now you're living 2 lives, 'cause you keep the real you hidden... don't.... please don't.... the problem is, that you have friends that like the 'normal' (better:'fake') you.... if you are just you, people will be attracted to you.... not to a mask.... your 'club' around you will change, and you will experience more sad moments 'cause you're vulnerable.... but you'll get something back that's worth far more: genuine support.... true love and care, and not people that bale on you when you need them.... and this advice is for everybody here, for i have noticed that the majority doesn't do this.... and this goes with a big *hug* to Dema: accept (and even love) yourself completely, and others will love you for it... love your quirks, your oddities.... people love them to.... at least, i do.... |
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| HayE | 12th March 2006 - 06:16 PM Post #28 |
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I was about to type a whole storie about what you could try to make your life better, but I don't know what to type. But I still make this post to tell you there is another person who cares, and I bet there are loads of other people who do so aswell. I wish you the best of luck. |
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| Skaskrit Venomclaw | 12th March 2006 - 10:24 PM Post #29 |
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I've never been where you are, and I do not truly know what you are going through. So, I'm not sure what advice I could give in a situation like this. (apart from getting another therapist... those people do know they're supposed to help their patients, right?) Still, what would occur to me is to start something new. Take up a new sport. A new hobby. Start a new school or job. Move to a new place. Something, anything to distract from your current problems. Probably the last thing you have the energy for in a situation like yours... but it might just be enough to make you feel better if you do it anyway, and maybe enough to get you past the current low. As I said, I don't have any experience with things like this, but that is the only possible solution that comes to mind. Still, whatever you do, whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck in it. |
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"I have a post-Armageddon vision. We and all other large animals are gone. Rodents emerge as the ultimate post-human scavengers. They gnaw their way through New York, London and Tokyo... within 5 million years, a whole range of new species replace the ones we know. Herds of giant grazing rats are stalked by sabre-toothed predatory rats. Given enough time, will a species of intelligent, cultivated rats emerge?" Richard Dawkins, The Ancestor's Tale | |
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| FatherSquee | 13th March 2006 - 07:38 AM Post #30 |
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Holder of Clan Pestilens "Most Sexiest" Award
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Yeah man try new things, hell Youth Groups are awsome support for whatever you may be going through (if your are a teen that is...) or maybe try some team sport like soccer or hocky and start building new realationships. No matter what though you can always be sure that you'll have friends to talk to here on this site; this isn't the first time we all helped people out here and I'm sure it won't be that last, so no matter how crappy your life may seem right now at least your still alive and with that comes new oppourtunities. |
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