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| Topic Started: Apr 9 2008, 06:11 PM (154 Views) | |
| 3d | Apr 9 2008, 06:11 PM Post #1 |
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Chicken Xing
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As you can imagine I have a slight problem. I've been friends with this girl, who I'll refer to as H, for about three years. Ever since I met her I've had the hugest crush on her. So today my friends, who I'll refer to as S and T, and I went to a reading competition type of thing. While there, they told me that H likes me. And while they tell me this I'm thinking, Hell yeah! So I tell them that I like her too. Well we kind of dropped the conversation at that seeing as it was our turn to compete. (We got last btw, lol) When we got back to school it was lunch time. So as I sit in the cafeteria, I see T run to H and then T runs over to me and starts saying "You have a girlfriend now." I just sit there for a minute then I start to think of what pain I'll put T through for telling H that I like her. So apparently we're boyfriend and girlfriend now. I tried to talk to her about what happened, but everytime I tried to talk to her she was either too far away or I had to make up a test or something. And whenever someone talked to her about me she apparently gets all wierd. ;_; Here are the problems though. H doesn't really seemed to enthused about us going out. And my friend at school, who I'll refer to as C, likes H too and he doesn't know that we're going out. Right now I'm really confused about what happened today and I'm just writing down everything I can think of, but I'm not sure if anyone can help me. |
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| EternalEbony | Apr 9 2008, 06:20 PM Post #2 |
I See Dead Laptops...
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When girls are talked to about the guys they like, they can get embarassed. That's why she could be acting weird- It's not a problem or anything. o_O Don't worry, if she likes you, she could just be nervous about going out, that's all. You're in 7th grade (I think, O.o), hormones are raging, and confidence is in low supply at times. And find a way to calmly tell C that you're going out with H. Don't go up and say, "Ha, I'm goin' out with H, betch!", although I know that'd be totally unlike you, I think. Just tell him that you're going out with her kindly, and see his reaction. I've sorta been in C's position before, except then the person in your position saw me as a threat to her relationship and started beating me up when I got too close to her boyfriend, at all. Don't take her example. And yeah, it must be a little confusing. 7th grade, hormones are raging. Although honestly, at least you can get a girlfriend. Next to potentially Ethan, who probably deserves it anyways, I have the worst luck with relationships out of all PMF members, but I won't bother you with that. |
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| Silfa | Apr 9 2008, 06:55 PM Post #3 |
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With the whole C thing, just let them find out. Someone will probably tell them or something like that should happen. That one should work itself out. |
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| Phizzle | Apr 9 2008, 08:10 PM Post #4 |
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You know the saying: Don't change anything. Ever.
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I'm pretty sure those problems are both smaller than you think they are. Like Silf said, the problem with the other guy will work itself out. So in other words, high five! |
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| 187666 | Apr 9 2008, 10:14 PM Post #5 |
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Boredom Strikes Again.
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Haha, I'll just say the worst possible scenarios. T and H are making it all up as a practical joke (Hey, happened to me before), and the whole school is in on it laughing at you. Highly unlikely, coz usually you don't get people as bad as my friends. Although, T didn't really think too much. If you really wanted to go out with her, you'd of asked her out. Never get people to ask others out for you. A, makes you look like a *****, B, if you really wanna ask her out, ask her out yourself. Coz sometimes people say more than necessary. Although this may sound crap, she might of only said yes because she was caught off guard. *sticks up hand* Not the funnest time.... And yeh, don't worry about C, unless you feel it of utmost urgency that only you tell him, just let him find out for himelf. Coz imagine telling him that, that would be a very awkward conversation. |
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| 3d | Apr 9 2008, 10:43 PM Post #6 |
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Chicken Xing
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I'm worried about C because he's the type of person who almost commits suicide whenever he's upset. I'm thinking he won't be thrilled about me going out with the girl he's liked ever since they met. Phizz: *returns five* In seventh grade everything is bigger than it seems to most people. D: Jefu: Thanks for the confidence. O.o I've been friends with H and C for three years. And I've been friends with S and T for two years. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't try to do anything to hurt me. And according to most people H has liked me for awhile, but neither of us wanted to make the first move. Dx |
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| Leviathan | Apr 9 2008, 11:10 PM Post #7 |
http://abscure.net
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Who cares, you're in junior high. I'm tried of crushes, and I'm in high school. You should be worried about maybe conditioning your self for a sport, maybe just plain older working out... |
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| 3d | Apr 10 2008, 05:28 PM Post #8 |
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Chicken Xing
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Well, I'm slightly relieved. Today, whenever I tried to talk to H, it was really ackward. So I told her to meet me in the back hallway by the music room. When she got there she confided that she would rather be friends with me just because it was stupid to be going out since she was uncomfortable with it. I still like her, but maybe 7th grade is too early for dating. |
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| The Shadow's Inferno | Apr 10 2008, 08:56 PM Post #9 |
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QFT. Well, its good it got resolved. So what about C? |
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| 3d | Apr 10 2008, 08:59 PM Post #10 |
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Chicken Xing
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He didn't know about anything. As far as he knows H was always single, and hopefully it will stay that way. T.T |
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| 187666 | Apr 11 2008, 02:57 AM Post #11 |
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Boredom Strikes Again.
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Good, 7th grade is way too early for dating lol. Wait till 9th or 10th. 10th has been the best year for it so far. |
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| Silfa | Apr 11 2008, 03:07 AM Post #12 |
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Admiral Awesome
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Irrelevant post! Jefu, I still don't know how you're in year 10 when you're born in October. explanation pls? |
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