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Why would you want to fall?; hassle pa
Topic Started: Aug 17 2006, 06:38 PM (1,954 Views)
jeffwafu143
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heheh... kasi with all due respect sau demeter

ung nkikita mo lang ung bad side eh wait till u fall in love... ung nkikita mo hassle yup msasaktan k ung mga ganung bagay... d ba sumagi sa isip u n minsan pag tanda mo gusto mo din may ksama... n pag may prob k may malalapitan ka at msasandalan... eto po ang reality di lahat nang fren mo or bestfren mo mkksama mo lagi... thought mdaming risk involve mabawi din nman un pag loyal tlga at maayos ung mgiging relasyon ninyo...
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demeter
Aug 22 2006, 08:06 PM
what is a heart? heart is just an organ that pumps blood. di ba it is the hypothalamus who sends the signals of "being inlove" to our brain and the body (sweating, shyness, etc)? since it is still the mind that controls, the head.. then brain pa rin.

Natawa ako dito. /heh

Eto lang masasabi ko about sa topic:
The pain comes with the joy... ^_^
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hehe nice 1 po
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falling in love, isnt something you look for... it just happens...

i have a friend for a long time, but lately i felt different... at first i didnt know what it was, but eventually i realized i'm falling for her...

if you'll ask me whether i'll try to control my feelings? definitely not, falling in love is something you experience and not hypothesize about...

yes i may get hurt, but on the other end could be a lifetime of happiness...

do keep in mind that the amount of times you failed or have gotten hurt doesnt measure you as a person, but the times you stood up.

live life to the fullest and never let it just pass by...
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Control yung feelings? Madaling i-type at mas madaling sabihin pero nde naman ganun yun kadali. It may work for you pero nde ibig sabihen lahat ganun kalakas ng kontrol sa sarili. Saka isa pa, kung nde naman nakakasakit bakit mo kelangan i-kontrol yung emotions mo?

I don't think you should control your emotions, it what you do with those emotions that you should control. Parang anlabo ata non ah. :lol2:


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if you are scared to get hurt ..then you are not ready to fall in love..

hindi mo maapreciate ang love pag d k nasasaktan.. /heh

u dont want to fall..u just fall... /polove
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bsta.. if u fall... someone will catch you. :D

don't be afraid to fall in love :D kung nde mo kaya kayanin moh!!

ano ka nde ka pinoy? /heh
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well if you fall in love without knowing it.. hindi yun yung knowingly you want to fall.

kasi sa nangyari dun sa usapan namin sa office, my officemate wants to fall in love. something like looking for love. i really don't think that's good. why would you want to fall? force yourself.
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why does HELLO feel like GOODBYE?
ahh^

sbihan mo nlng.. wak magmadali.. w8 mo lng ddting dn yan /heh

prepare nya lng sarili nya /heh /heh /heh :D
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demeter
Aug 23 2006, 11:17 AM
kasi sa nangyari dun sa usapan namin sa office, my officemate wants to fall in love. something like looking for love. i really don't think that's good. why would you want to fall? force yourself.

You don't look for love.. Let love find you. /poswt2
Ganun daw un eh... People want to experience falling in love kasi masarap ang feeling ng inlove. Iba kasi nadudulot ng love sa isang tao lalo na pag na inlove talaga siya. It gives him/her the sense of fully submitting himself/herself to that someone. Why would people want to fall? They want to experience joy and pain at the same time.
Ung emotions.. di mo maccontrol yan. part yan ng tao eh.
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I think falling (or feeling?) for someone is part of human nature.. but as a human.. we are also capable of making choices. I guess it all boils down to whether we give in to the feeling or walk away from it.

I agree with you Cath, you can control it. But if you ask young people, especially most teenagers, or I can also say aged people who are 'young at heart', they would probably answer, "I can't help but fall in love!" yada yada.. I think its because they are still young and/or inexperienced.

But as time goes by, after several heartaches, you become mature, you learn from your mistakes. That's the time you become concious of you decisions, yes you still fall (you can't deny it), BUT you start to control it before it starts to control you. You don't just give in to the feeling.. this time.. it's not only your heart that is talking.. but mostly your mind as well (which is best IMO). Which probably makes relationships more complicated as you mature, darn! (as you say, daming hassle!)

It's a good thing that as young as you are, you are in control of your love life (or lack of it). Maybe because there are other things in your life that are far more important than having a man by your side. Or maybe you still have not met the man who will be worthy of your precious time ^_^

But as they say, too much of something is bad. Using your brain in relationships may have its advantages, but being too much in control can also lead you to possible heartache and loneliness.
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demeter
Aug 22 2006, 02:01 PM
exactly my point.

try and try until you succeed? no statistics can predict that probability that the next partner you might keep would be your permanent partner.

are you assuming something back when you love a particular person?

If yes, then it is fairly stupid to fall in love. :lol: So there isn't any answer why you would want to fall... it isn't even necessary.

However, if you just live for the sake of loving, then you just give a part of you everytime. And when you live like that, what have you got to lose but yourself? :lol:

Loving to give or loving to take? /hmm

And being complete is soooooo another issue. :lol:
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Naalala ko tuloy yung usapan namin ng kaibigan ko about love.

Anyway, napansin ko lang most people want to be in a relationship not because they want to love somebody but because they want to be loved. Yun siguro ang rason kumbaket gusto ng officemate mo ma-in love: to be loved back.
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are you assuming something back when you love a particular person?

If yes, then it is fairly stupid to fall in love. :lol: So there isn't any answer why you would want to fall... it isn't even necessary.

I think there's nothing wrong with expecting something in return when you love somebody. Otherwise, what's the point in keeping the relationship? Would you want to keep on loving somebody (who for example isnt living up to even the slightest of your expectations) your whole life? I think that is stupidity.

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However, if you just live for the sake of loving, then you just give a part of you everytime. And when you live like that, what have you got to lose but yourself? :lol:

Hmm.. i think in reality.. you lose more than yourself.. what about money, time, 'other' opportunities? ^_^

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Loving to give or loving to take? /hmm

IMO, it should be loving to give AND take. The relationship will eventually crumble if its only one way.
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