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Why would you want to fall?; hassle pa
Topic Started: Aug 17 2006, 06:38 PM (1,953 Views)
demeter
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Big question in my mind.. why would you want to fall?

i was at work when only 3 of us in my team (all girls) decided to stay for a while after our shifts to finish some paperworks. then for some reason they started talking about guys and relationships. i decided to join in the conversation of course. of guys and relationships. basically our situations are these: 1 has a boyfriend, one was lamenting coz she still doesn't have a boyfriend, and me who doesnt even want to have one. then when i retorted.. why would she want to have a guy ruining her life, she said i would understand it when the time comes since "i'm still young". hm.. i'm 3 years older than she is.

so basically.. my question is.. why would you want to fall? 1) it gives you heartaches especially if nothing happens or SOMETHING bad happens. 2) it is not as if you need to have a family and looking for that partner in life is a necessity. 3) if ever i do want a child, it is easy to have one. i really don't need a guy in my life naman ah.

ok ok i know the intimacy.. the sweetness.. yada yada yada... so what?
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You would want to fall for the RIGHT person. Who's the RIGHT person? I don't know.. you just know it. Now you wouldn't want to fall for someone who isn't RIGHT. Because that would be a waste of time, energy, emotions, etc.

I mean.. right?

/lv

Gah. love /podevil wtf.
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i think it's not that you WANT to fall... it's just that sometimes you can't help but fall... it's not really a choice, because somehow, chance is involved. you wake up one day and find yourself in love with someone. you don't know how it happened, or why it happened in the first place. all you know is that you are suddenly in love with this person.

/heh
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"1) it gives you heartaches especially if nothing happens or SOMETHING bad happens.

-but it also gives you happiness when your with someone you love or the right person db? :) it's just fear :) someday you'll meet your equal :) and heartaches are part of loving, its' the risk anyway right? /heh peace.

"2) it is not as if you need to have a family and looking for that partner in life is a necessity"
-but to procreate it is a necessity for mankinds' survival :D :peace:

"3) if ever i do want a child, it is easy to have one. i really don't need a guy in my life naman ah."

-but it would be nice if ithe child is your own and from the guy you love db? and not adopted :) and you still need a guy for his sperm if you prefer having a baby artificially /heh peace.
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Others want to fall for companionship.
Others dont want to fall because they dont want to get hurt.
Others dont want to fall but couldn't help it.
Others fall for the wrong people but still love them.

Falling is out of your control.
Though some could resist for a bit, but eventually give in.
If someone try to ignore the fact that they have fallen, it might just lead to heartache. ;)

Wag mong taguin ang nararamdaman mo. Ilabas mo. Kundi maging utot yan. :lol2:
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Quote ko na lang si Butters ng South Park:

"I love life...Yeah, I'm sad, but at the same time, I'm really happy that something could make me feel that sad. It's like...It makes me feel alive, you know. It makes me feel human. The only way I could feel this sad now is if I felt something really good before. So I have to take the bad with the good. So I guess what I'm feeling is like a beautiful sadness."

Isa pang quote galing Vanilla Sky:

"The sweet isn't as sweet without the sour."


Pain is part of life, ma-inlove ka man o hindi mararanasan mo ren masaktan on way or the other. So I don't see why you should let fear of getting yourself hurt be in the way of love.

Anyway, personally I don't have any reason to want to fall. Sa totoo lang, ayaw ko nga eh ang korni kase. /heh

Pero I do realize that if it happens, I should not avoid it because it's part of human nature. /no1
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it's just a matter of how we perceive falling in love whether it is just another life-sucks moment or celebrate-life moment...

the real question is what have you been perceiving your life of..

and perceiving every other time a life-sucks moment is dull and boring. /gg
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i think it's all about companionship, a small sense of insecurity, and what society portrays as an act of 'normality'.

if you don't want to 'fall' for somebody, then kudos for you. i agree, relationships suck. they're time-consuming, mostly meaningless, and a big headache to have to carry around.

enjoy life while you're still young and single.

otherwise, once you've 'fallen' you'll be spiraling downward in a whirl of chaos, misery, selflessness, and defeat.
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Aug 18 2006, 10:55 AM
i think it's not that you WANT to fall... it's just that sometimes you can't help but fall... it's not really a choice, because somehow, chance is involved. you wake up one day and find yourself in love with someone. you don't know how it happened, or why it happened in the first place. all you know is that you are suddenly in love with this person.

/heh

tumpak c kumareng ilongga dito /no1

a guy will come for you cath who will make you listen to your heart before your brain.. and then everything else fades in terms of importance.. in other words, darating ang panahon na mababaliw ka sa isang lalake cath nyahahaha
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hi ate cath... ikaw po ung si w|sh?

naalaala ko dati e2

"To w|sh: Hi po!!!

From w|sh: Hi

To w|sh: ikaw ung pic na nasa level up site?

From w|sh: Sorry Bf nya 2

From w|sh: Bkit?

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eh? aahaha. probably yan yung time na me online bf ako. sha gumagamit ng account ko nun dati.

@Shaolei.. yeah enjoy the blessed singleness ika nga.

@Natalie.. mind over heart. You can always control if you will fall dba? so why would you want "not to" control it?
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pde ma control...pero di lahat ng tao kayang control feelings nila eh... IMO lang
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Aug 20 2006, 11:33 AM
@Natalie.. mind over heart. You can always control if you will fall dba? so why would you want "not to" control it?

hi cath! :)
you want to "not" control how you feel because you are just being honest with yourself. that's how you feel, so why reject the feeling?

however, some people choose to reject the feeling because of certain.. er, complications.
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not really natalie.. love is subjective. you might think that you are in love with someone when the fact is you're not. you are just infatuated or worse you only lust for that person.

rational thoughts and feelings can be answered with honesty since they can be answered with yes or no. "Do I love my parents because they gave me life? Yes". Not like "Do I love him because he makes me happy?" well.. if that is the case, then i should just get a dog.
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why does HELLO feel like GOODBYE?
mki singit. :D

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f its mr./ms. right then bket nde?

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