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Pushing away the one you love; why?
Topic Started: Jun 9 2006, 04:30 AM (652 Views)
numeros9
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Simple lang sagot diyan...

AKo... takot ako masaktan...
nsaktan na ako once....

so pag pakiramdam mo naiinlove...

push them away.. /no1
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@dhang

sapak ung poem ate. /sob

pero hindi nagsstart sa friendship. usually kasi dun na agad eh. pero im sure maraming ganyan. friendship muna.

@numerose9

simple and blunt.

grabe........ yan na un. so are u saying this is all based on past experiences? like.. phobia?

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ako d ko kyang iwan cya hahaha..... kc mhal ko tlga ehh :)
kht nssaktan ako mnsan... ok lng msaktan wag lng mwala cya sayo dba hahaha....
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Jun 9 2006, 02:43 PM
but here's another question. . why do people like this find it hard to just give in? hindi na naubusan ng reasons kung bakit hinde dapat.. you know.

er..

and why are there people who don't find loving someone so hard? parang walang hang-ups?

hmm.. kinda hard. i'm not love doctor. and consultations are free ryobie. post ka lang di2 baka pde ka namin tulungan.

@ thereshegoes
1: Maraming reasons kasi maraming gustong iwasan or ayaw gawin. I think ganun lang yun. They USE reasons to excuse themselves from the reality that they are into or it could also be that they are yet confused kaya they make lots of reasons.
I think pde naman un.. kaso wag lagi.. kc it could be bad.. sa sobrng daming reasons mo parang u'll end up still not solving the problem. dapat gwa ka ng way para masolve un and not make so many excuses/reasons.

2: Some people don't find loving someone so hard because they love what they do. They love loving their partners.. (err.. nagets mo? O.o) They are happy and enjoy much with their partners. they also have healthy relationships and even though a break up may be bad they still cope up kasi there are maybe a lot of people who are ready to comfort them or help them in their struggles. environment could be a factor kaya some people may take loving so easy or so hard, or both.


sorry kung mejo redundant.. /swt or nonsense. mga thoughts ko lang man din yan bout your questions. sana may makuha ka ha.. kc ndi tlga ako magaling d2. just trying to help lang. and tell me rin people kung mali ako.. para may matutunan din ako sa inyo :smash:
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do you think ate na nasa level of maturity rin siya? or dahil takot lang tlga mag risk dahil sa past experiences?

or pwede rin.. un nga hindi pa ready. studies or career muna, so in a way, they are just being responsible citizens.

thank you for your replies. they're a lot of help ^_^
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Jun 9 2006, 11:22 PM
do you think ate na nasa level of maturity rin siya? or dahil takot lang tlga mag risk dahil sa past experiences?

or pwede rin.. un nga hindi pa ready. studies or career muna, so in a way, they are just being responsible citizens.

thank you for your replies. they're a lot of help ^_^

Dami paring pdeng reasons why ganun ang tao. Ung mga sinabi mo examples na rin un.

It could be that a person is afraid to love again because of past experiences. Ayaw niyang maulit ung mga nangyari sa kanya. In that way pinapakita niya na afraid xa na magtake ng risk or ayaw na talaga niyang magmahal or ndi pa ito ang tamang oras para sa mga pag-ibig issues na yan kasi marami pang important things na dapat unahin at ayusin.

Yes, pde rin na nasa level of maturity na xa. Siguro, na realize niya na dpat ganito pala muna.. or ganyan.. pde rin na ngbago pananaw niya sa buhay or ung outlook nia ngchange.. nghahanap ng bagong pdeng gawin at ayaw i-centro ang buhay sa love.

Di rin kasi natin mapredict ang attitude ng tao. Pde kasi ito magbago as time passes by. Dami kasing nakapaligid sa tao eh. kaya ganun. :)
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* nagbabasa ng love advices ni ate anne :lol2:

@thereshegoes- give this guy a time to think things over. ;) goodluck !^_^ hope things will work out for the best ;)
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grabeh kaw ha.. :lol2: love advices.. wakokoko


@ thereshegoes
tama si mami sug... pag-isipan mo ang mga gagawin mo. wak padalos dalos sa mga decisions mo. isipin muna mabuti bago gawa ng action. baka need mo lang din time and space para mag-isip. I'm sure maiintindihan din yan ng mga tao sa paligid mow. :D
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^^.
Kung inde ka pa ready to have a commitment or not yet ready to fall in love again wag mo na lang cia pansinin. Just ignore the person.
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thank you anne and sat. para kayong mentors ko. pero just to make it clear.. walang issue yung lalake. ako meron. kasi ako yung ganun and i just feel like i need professional help or something.

^_^

ill keep in mind everything you guys said. thank you for all your help.

@pulsar

grabe ka naman. /heh
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