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Pushing away the one you love; why?
Topic Started: Jun 9 2006, 04:30 AM (653 Views)
ThereSheGoes

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i cant believe im making this thread but hey, whatever. i just want to gather different kinds of opinion on why some people push the people they love away.

why??

you know you love someone but you push that someone away. You would do everything that would let that someone get turned off by you just so that person would get off your case.

why do people that? born martyrs? hell no. why?!

are they afraid of a commitment? what is holding them back? why are people like this?

a penny for your thoughts? !>_<
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not me?
The truth is.. its pointless...lol
oops.. daplis
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ThereSheGoes

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im sorry? ano daplis?
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not me?
The truth is.. its pointless...lol
sumthing sumthing gg pm nlng ahaha
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ThereSheGoes

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okay wait ko nalang sagot ng ibang tao. ^_^
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baka takot lang mabigo
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afraid of being hurt perhaps. we take risks in loving a person and sometimes it takes more than guts to to make a relationship work.

some people tend to avoid these things by not risking anything at all. ;)
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There are, I guess, a lot of reasons why people tend to push away the people they love. It could be that they are afraid to love. not yet ready. priorities first before love. avoid making risks. afraid of commitment, rejection, failure. or maybe these people just don't want to hurt others but tend to hurt themselves instead. Because of these myths / fears / stereotypes / etc / etc .... some people tend to push away the people they love.

i hope i made sense. kinda dumb at this stuff. XD
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^ :clap: i also forgot to say about some people falling out of love. ;) sometimes you just suddenly realize that it just wasn't the same anymore. it's quite easier to push someone away rather than be honest and come out with an explanation.

ehhh am i making any sense? :lol2:
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^- they fall out of love because feelings cannot be stagnant forever. i mean, people change. change. change. they may change their outlook / perspective in life. whatever the reason is, we don't know. it's only them who know the reasons for such.
pushing them away may also be a defense mechanism so that pain would not be so much inflicted upon them or like what mami sug said, to avoid being so honest and frank to that other person or it could be that they don't want to make a problem big and hide theirselves from the other.

yikes! O.o nonsense :lol2:
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^ - idol :worthy: you should have your name attached to this section anne. :lol2: ms anne the hmmm... the apple? !?_? ahahaha /e4
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nah... kaw tlga mami sug. and yah i should have handled cupid's lair. :lol2: JOKE lang. ^_^
-- ionno why i've posted here. i've quitted and avoided this thread na. >_< ewaaaaaaaaann..

advise lang: as much as possible.. don't do this. IT'S BETTER TO BE HONEST.. kasi the more you push away, the harder it is and much pain is inflicted upon you or the other person.
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ive done this b4 /swt

i see a lot of love doctors in here

are the consultations for free /heh
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Jun 9 2006, 02:13 PM
There are, I guess, a lot of reasons why people tend to push away the people they love. It could be that they are afraid to love. not yet ready. priorities first before love. avoid making risks. afraid of commitment, rejection, failure. or maybe these people just don't want to hurt others but tend to hurt themselves instead. Because of these myths / fears / stereotypes / etc / etc .... some people tend to push away the people they love.

i hope i made sense. kinda dumb at this stuff. XD

afraid of being hurt perhaps. we take risks in loving a person and sometimes it takes more than guts to to make a relationship work.

some people tend to avoid these things by not risking anything at all.

baka takot lang mabigo


whoaa.... sakto niyo.

maybe these people just don't want to hurt others but tend to hurt themselves instead.

that's the biggest one.

thank you sat, anne and dcshoes. you guys are a lot of help. but here's another question. . why do people like this find it hard to just give in? hindi na naubusan ng reasons kung bakit hinde dapat.. you know.

er..

and why are there people who don't find loving someone so hard? parang walang hang-ups?

advise lang: as much as possible.. don't do this. IT'S BETTER TO BE HONEST.. kasi the more you push away, the harder it is and much pain is inflicted upon you or the other person.

/sob2

more advice please.. this is sooo inspiring.

i think im sick. ok let's get real. isa na ako sa mga yan. hindi lang once.. but numerous times ko na yang ginagawa. kahit soooobrang like ko ung guy. as in sobra...... and like na rin niya ako pero ayokooooooooooo.

:censored: ko. im sick huh?
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by Terri clark

Threw all these years i have watched you grow
threw all these years i have felt the same way about you
threw all these years you havnt even realized that i love you
threw all these years i have lost your love for me
we have been friends since forever
but you haven't even tried to be more than friends
cant you realize that you are my one and only true love
threw all these years i have craved for you
threw all these years i have wanted you in many ways then one
threw all these years i have loved you

like this poem, maybe you are scared that you might lost your friendship...

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BeiN MaaRte WaS NaTuRaL aMoNg GurLz..
DhaNgDa KaZe ..
So WheN SomeOne TeLLz You
"Ang ARTE Mo"
JuSt TuRn BaCk aNd SaY...
"AffeCteD Ka? WALANG GAMOT SA INSECURE"
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