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got a heart problem, try 2 consult me; wag lang po financial problem!!!
Topic Started: Dec 6 2005, 04:34 PM (1,946 Views)
xyrafanet
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ahehehe, free po consultation, im also giving free advice... :lol:
dra. love of loki boards , how i wish...
as a pyscholigist graduate id like to share some of my thoughts, that will help some things that bother`s you a lot , esp hearttalks..
ill just try my best to ans.some of your question and give some advices..
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just tell the story behind your problem. and question, and ill do the rest..
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hey xyra.. may i help? i wna help din those who have heart problems.. not because i'm a heart surgeon or anything funky.. i just keep a level head when it comes to things like this..

If payag ka, ehdi mern cla 2nd opinion /heh
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why not...? 2 heads are better than one /heh .. ayt.... in every consultation theres a second opinion /heh
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Who do you turn to when the only person who can stop you from crying is the person who is making you cry?
Destiny is only an excuse to those who give up and lose. Only man has the power to change fate, and that is the power of choice.

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Nice question JM!!! /no1
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First of all, (if that's a serious question) *naks /heh *

Lol.. ok game..

You have to find out the answer to the question "Why." Why does that person make you cry? Only then can you move on to the next step and try to do something about it. And face it, if you find out the person makes you "cry" because he/she just hurts you, maybe that person's just bad for you. Why stay with a person who doesn't bring out any good from you? Who makes you feel bad? It might be a cliche but, there really are plenty of people out there. If you are below 26, it doesn't make sense to stick to one person who constantly hurts you thinking that maybe he/she'll change.. Well yes, he/she might. But do you have to wait and suffer their bad attitude while they "change" for the better?

If you two are really meant to be together, nothing can keep you apart. Let's say you split up now, if you two are supposed to be together, sometime in the future you will meet each other again and by that time both of you will be mature enough, would have more experience and would have worked out all the wrinkles in your relationship.

Be real. Wag ka pakamartyr- because suffering in love is a myth. It maybe romantic and whatever, but that's not what real love is.
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Haha I wasn't serious with that question, well maybe if I asked you that a month ago, I would've been very serious. I pretty much found the answer to it.

Hmm, good enough answer. Looks like you can be of help in this thread. :D

However, I would like to ask you, what's with 26? Is this a measure of maturity? Bear in mind, age doesn't measure maturity. Especially in the field of love.

And I can see that you surely have a strong belief in the powers of fate and destiny. That's good, but sometimes, though it may seem destined, there are lots of factors that can bend this fate that we believe in. But it just so happened, fate is stronger at times. :D

Oh and btw, suffering in love is a myth eh? Not really. Maybe you just had it easy for you. :) But not everyone has got it easy.
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Oh.. hmm.. I might have generalised too much.. You're right sometimes love comes with suffering and those hard times make the relationship stronger.. but.. I meant to say pala.. that:

Irrational suffering in love is a myth. Undue suffering.. ung wala nang real reason to stay pero u keep saying, "I'll stick it out kc I love him/her so much" or "Matagal na naging 'kami,' sayang naman.. maybe magbbago rin cia" yknow? Inaabuso and everyone around knows wala na paparatingan yan.. But still you'd rather suffer.. Those are not real reasons to stay in a relationship.

Relationships should be healthy for both parties..

As to the "26" age /heh I was told(I forgot who) that it's around that time that both males and females are generally mature enough to be seriously looking for a lifetime partner. Surveys have shown that most separated/divorced couples married before they were 26.. Pero cyempre it won't apply to all.. Cguro na-mention ko lng kc nga.. medyo young tlga ung 25 below.. too young to feel so stuck in a relationship na walang patutunguhan as though wala nang iba sa mundo.
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nice thread :lol:

btw here's my Q

im kinda confused who i am when she's not around, its like being a hollow shell waiting to be filled up by her. and why do i seek people similar as I? or different from me?

but..
why is it that i enjoy knowing the specific qualities of other women? does this mean im taking interest on having a secret affair?

thanks and good day
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uhm.. consult ko lang sa inyo guys ung situation ko...

freshly broken-hearted ako.. sobra di ko na alam gagawin ko eh.. sobra love ko ung gurl.. and alam ko mahal nya din ako.. i think meron lng thing na pumipigil sa kanya para magcontinue sa rel. namin... i dont know if what is that thing that is bothering her...she's the woman i wanna marry someday... di ko na talaga alam gagawin ko to the extent na i take my life just to end this... ayoko naman na sisihin siya ng family ko kpag ginawa ko un... sobra gulung-gulo na ako... sobra....

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Wow! Ayus sa mga consulations ah! ^_^

@ Skaray:
Si Magic ba yan? :)

@ tofu:
Idol Neil, kamusta na? Baka nami-miss mo lang siya? Kelan ka balik ng jap? ^_^ /gawi

@ -mainman-:
Wag mo tapusin ang buhay mo! Sayang! Na-try mo na ba siya tanungin kung ano talaga ang reason kung bakit ayaw na niya mag continue sa relationship niyo? :(
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natanong ko na fafs... she told me ang dami dami daw gumugulo sa knya kung anu-ano... pero lam ko love nya ako... /sob

di ko lam ggawin ko kaya hanggang dito umabot na panghihingi ko ng help... /sob

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Huwag mo tigilan!!! Kung talagan love ka niya eh hindi yan makakatiis!
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fafs di ko alam gagawin ko... as in hindi ko na lam.. sana mapigilan ko sarili ko sa pde ko gawin sa srili ko...

sana nababasa nya lahat toh.. sana... /sob

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@MainMan... nagkausap na po ba kayo? have you asked her whats the reason breaking up with you.? come on mainman, bat pa kailangang gawin such thing, na to the extent na you take ur life, with out knowing whats the big reason behind that break up.. di ba...masasabi ko muna as of now, mag usap muna kayong 2, ask her muna , kung ano ba talaga rason bat nag ka ganun, hindi po yung magpapakamatay without knowing, kung anu ba talaga reason di ba.? mas masakit un, baka sa huli magsisisi ka sa gagawin mo, malay mo ung reason nya afford mo o kaya mo naman maunawan diba? maybe that reason will help you both on the future,.sabi mo nga di ba sobrang mahal na mahal mo cia,... get a heart to heart talk with ur ex..be open minded ka pag nagkaroon kau ng time, then after nun, visit ka po uli dito...for final my advice, for now... find a way para makapag usap kayo.... as a friend .. kaya mo yan.. :rokon: mainman....
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