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What's a girl to do?; Ending Engagement
Topic Started: Mar 6 2008, 07:11 PM (979 Views)
Angel
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I can relate Helen. I was married to my high school sweetheart for 10 years, being together a total of 14. He didn't treat me the best, kept me under his thumb, contolled me. After we were married 5 years I started getting tired of how he treated me, and he was everything to me (or so I thought). I started retreating and not "worshipping" him the way he thought I should. So, right before my 30th birthday he got rid of me and moved his girlfriend in. Then told everyone to forget about me because now there was this new girl. I had to move in with my parents for a while. But, I ended up meeting this wonderful man and now we have a little baby girl. He treats me so much better.

I bet it is God's way of saying that He has something better for you! :) Its hard to go through (believe me), but it is worth it in the end. I can't imagine life with my ex-husband now.
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ferzatsyu
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Angel, did you get
http://z6.invisionfree.com/Free_Thinkers/i...?showtopic=1807
?
I try to share & give from da bottom of my heart ' to you all my beloved sisters !
' Share this tomorrow (I don' t think I' ll be able to be on da net 'till sunday...) to all our beloved sisters, will you , please ? ... Thanx, my dear shambala warrior sister !
GOD bless
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HellenKeller
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manureva1,
Thank you for your kind words, you really seem to get the situation.
Thank you all for your responses, I understand them all.
No, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me.
He does, bit he can't bring himself to be responsible. I caught the last half of The Break Up with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston this morning, although I've seen it many times before (I just f---in LOVE that movie). It was too wierd how I am IN this situation right now. Broken up, living together, he has let me have the room, and I go from cool and collected to cussing him out the door. What does he expect?
I am gaining momentum.
You should all know my strength is gaining as well.
I slept almost ALL WEEK and since yesterday I am bouncing back.
I am thankful that I was not working now because I think work can cause me to over anaylize what I can not be doing about IT while I am stuck at work.
I am not one of those people who can work to keep my mind OFF something. It only makes things fester. The sleep seemed to do the trick, it is such an escape.
I am very proud of myself on that one because usually I would have turned to excessive drinking and/or drugs. This time I am actually doing less of both than on a normal week of my life. I don't really drink anymore, but I did have a mix of good red wine and grape juice with my second bubble bath on Thursday night.
All in all I know I am in the right place as far as God is concerned.
I have a job interview next Thursday and it sounds right up my alley.
30 hrs a week, assistant manager at a storage unit facility.
I told the guy on the phone yesterday I had to have at least $9/hr and he was like, "I'll have to talk to the home office but that shouldn't be a problem." Now I'm thinking I should have said $10/hr; but maybe if I get the job and shine like the diamonds I wear on the inside, then he'll give me a raise.
Lots of Love to you all!

P.S. ferzatsyu, I'm reading your post for the ladies righ after this.
God Bless your respect for the fairer sex!
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manureva1
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Hellen, I see you are a very strong woman. I think you will overcome this and will be successful, only time can help in the healing process. Abot wine, I love wine, I prefer wine than beer, you needed some rest. I am glad you got a job. and I'm sure life will treat you well. These experiences make us stronger.
wish you the best.
love :)
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HellenKeller
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Well, I have an interview. Hope I have the job!
Thanks Manu
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