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What's a girl to do?; Ending Engagement
Topic Started: Mar 6 2008, 07:11 PM (980 Views)
Robby
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Hi Helen,


You are entering into an amazing time of your life - that is to say that your energy levels are about to be rasied. You might not think so at present and thats OK, only cos your thought patteren has loop into rejection, going into the unknown which causes insecurity within self.

One of the most important question you have to ask yourself is "Do you want to be with somesone who does not want to be with you?"

'Did you do anything wrong to feel the way you do at present, and if not, then you have to ask yourself why do you choose to feel this way?

This is where you make the choice to pick yourself up and raise above the frequencies in which you vibrate in.

What I have discovered about love is that it is an optical illision - we depend on a person to make us feel what our perception of love should feel like. Reaility check you are in control of every emotions... your partner does not know how to push your buttons in your mind so that you can feel love only you do!!!


When our relationship falls into a routine program that feeling of love that we depend on slowly disappears and one day we wake up and look at our partner and say to our selves "I am not in love any more cos you do not make me feel the way I used to feel about you"

Hence the bombardment of KNOW YOUSELF , LOVE YOURSELF , and remember you are here to go around garthing love from other people to convince yourself that you are worth it.

You are welcome to PM for any further info!

Tons of smiles

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Robby
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Correction:

Hence the bombardment of KNOW YOUSELF , LOVE YOURSELF , and remember you are NOT here to go around garthing love from other people to convince yourself that you are worth it.

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robin
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only him?
and U are 30?
since U were 15?
that is a huge chunk of years.

if he is going to leave, there is nothing U can do to make him stay.
if he wants to go let him go....

lean back into the universe and relax.
U have many people left to meet in UR life.

if U think HE (UR boyfriend/exfiancee) is so wonderful, honey, just WAIT for the NEXT one!
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its like a super duper wonderful gift coming to U but U have to wait till he gets there...AND he will be even BETTER than the one U have NOW (or dont have now i think U are saying)





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manureva1
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I was thinking about you Hellen yesterday after I wrote my message and I thought about the fact your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you after all those years means that he was send to you by God to teach you something but he is not your soul mate. A soul mate is 100% like you, wants what you want. I think that people mistake a wedding and a marriage, they think you marry, everybody is celebrating until they see what marriage means.
marriage is not just on paper. marriage is responsability big time not only for oneself but for the other half. Just think this way:

-would you want him to walk away when you give birth?
-would you want a man who walk away when it rains: when you are sick? when you need him the most like in the though times.
-just imagine you have financial problems and he walks away, you find yourself homeless.

I think a man should be a rock, the one you can count on when you need him. Personally I had so many issues with my husband, the guy can't deal with crisis, financial issues. a man should work 2 jobs if it makes his marriage better, that's what a man means.

I think being married is beautiful because you don't spend your evenings alone, you never eat alone, you always have someone to talk to but on the other hand if you break down on the side of the road you need to have a second tire. a man can be handsome and nice but if he can't be there when you need him, then there is nothing pretty about him!!!!

think about it.
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ferzatsyu
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HellenKeller, I hope this ' gonna help ' :
http://z6.invisionfree.com/Free_Thinkers/i...?showtopic=1807
GOD bless, my beloved ones !
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